Slipping…
Slipping is when you flip through a magazine with erotic content and spend much time looking at the models pictured inside
Slipping is when you don’t throw out the magazine
Slipping is when you tell yourself maybe its time I start visiting stripclubs again
Slipping is when you imagine having sex with a prostitute and you don’t let the thought go away
Slipping is when you feel a unique thrill when driving by a massage parlour and you don’t worry about it
Slipping is when you see an attractive girl walking in the street and you are immediately thinking of satisfying your sexual urge
Slipping is when you don’t bother in arranging alternative activities that will distract you from sexual thoughts
Slipping is when you are coming dangerously close to a relapse
I’ve been doing too much slipping lately, and I have to get it under control again.
hang in there!
Recognizing that you’re slipping means you’ve come a long way.
You’ve made it this far – you can do it.
What would it fix? 1 hour of “fix” = 6 months of guilt and self torture.
Put a list of 10 reasons why you don’t want to go there in your wallet. Whenever you get the urge, read the list, think about the list. Think about the man you used to be and be proud of the one you’ve become.
Thinking of you.
Thanks for your support. Writing about what I am experiencing definitely helps and puts me back on track. Its like a good wake up call.
And by the way in a past post I made a list of 15 good excuses to never go again. You can check them out at http://sexaddiction.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/the-good-excuses/
ahhh…but what i heard here was you “slipped,” not that you “fell” or “relapsed.”
i understand. we all have thoughts and urges we need to keep in line and hopefully, they will simply remain thusly and not cross that thin line into *relapse*.
i give you attaboys
(former lurker, first-time post-er…)